I do often wonder, and still wonder if being a person who does not care and bother about anything makes one a happier person. Is it that difficult for a leopard to change its spots? Is it that difficult to become a person who does not care about what is going on? Some things seem never to work. I guess some things take time to get used to and to work.

As with my previous post about not planning, I would like to clarify that there is a quote which goes "not planning is planning to fail". In some cases, I would not dispute that claim. However, in certain circumstances, not planning leads to a lesser extent of disappointment and maybe even resentment. We have to come to terms that life is unpredictable and that things more than often, do not go according to plan. Hence, being flexible is the best option, also to avoid disappointment.